The Risks

Reading Resonance, A Theory by Mark Saballa really made me reflect on my own life. It made me realize how often I put boundaries on my feelings and let fear stop me from taking risks. I decided to read it not only because I admire the author, but also because I wanted to connect its ideas to my personal experiences especially about love, since I’ve never really met “the one.”

Going through the book chapter by chapter felt like listening to a hum. Each part told a story that stayed in my heart and mind. The first chapters reminded me of my high school days, naïve and unsure of what love truly meant. I laughed at some parts because I could relate, but the chapter that hit me hardest was Chapter 6, where the character must choose between the person they love and the person their parents think is right for them.

That chapter brought back memories of my own experiences. I didn’t choose the person I truly loved. I let them go because of fear. Fear held me back from taking a risk, and I still feel like I missed something because I didn’t try.

The title of the book Resonance perfectly reflects how I felt. Reading about taking risks and stepping out of your comfort zone carried a deep resonance with me. The words stayed with me, making me question whether my choices were truly for my well-being or just ways to avoid discomfort. That emotional hum is hard to ignore. It makes you pause, reflect, and sometimes act differently than you would have before.

This book reminded me that boundaries are important, but fear shouldn’t stop us from showing up. Growth, courage, and meaningful experiences often require stepping into the unknown even when it’s scary. Resonance taught me that the lessons that stay with us the longest are often the ones we almost didn’t dare to face.