There are phases in relationships where roads look clear and wide, the destinations obvious, and outcomes expected. But as the miles add up, we eventually come to an intersection where the metaphor of driving lessons comes to life. It is the realization that both of you have your own hands on the wheel while trying to steer the same car. If two people steer in opposite directions, they come to a halt and reach nowhere. Most often, one person dominates the driving, while the o

In the early stages of a relationship, our individual dreams often take a backseat to the thought and excitement of being with another. We want to earnestly offer ourselves, often making quiet personal sacrifices. But as the relationship matures, we enter the stage where we realize that a partnership does not thrive on sacrifices alone, but with a conscious and intentional effort to honor each other's individual journeys. Support one another, together, without diminishing ano

In the heat of conflicts, the mind often becomes a launchpad for disagreements, brewing animosity and contempt, which makes it hard to give way for real solutions. These accumulating misunderstandings gradually erode the relationships and we must stay mindful.   Mindfulness is the ability to be aware of the present moment and what is important, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one's reactions and tendencies. It involves active listening, emotional regulation, and deep